How to start speaking?
No one has the time to judge you and if someone does pick your mistake You could just say,
Oh I didn't know. Is it so? Oh, I made a mistake here. I just realized it. Whenever you do a mistake that situation is not embarrassing at all but our reactions make it so.
You have learned grammar, meaning you know all the tenses and you understand all the tenses. But still, yoy find it difficult to speak English. So here, I have the solution of your problem. 👇
These are the millstones through which you have to come forward. So there will be no witchcraft here that you will start speaking English directly. So if you're feeling like I stop while speaking. I start to stammer. Or I don't have words to speak. So cherish that experience and enjoy. Wait, Take a short break there is no problem with that. Wait as many times as you want because after two years no one will remember this, that you used to get stammer. Rather, those people will remember this man, how well does he speak English. So if you want to go to that level. So, whatever obstacles are there in your path, you will have to go through them.
What was my problem?
So when I have realized. when I used to stop while speaking English then what were those sentences which I used to have trouble with speaking. And in the end, I found that the sentences were very simple. Nothing was complex. But I was not mentally prepared. Meaning I didn't believe in myself, if I have started the sentences in English then, I will be able to finish it too. After speaking I, He, or She or helping verb My mind used to get scared, what to say next? Meanwhile, I used to stress out my mind so much that I wondered what to say? Meanwhile, I used to forget that thought. and when that moment was gone. I realized that I knew what to say. As a matter of fact, I knew grammar rules too. But still, I could not speak so why did it happen? I used to sit all day thinking that I am of no use. I could not speak a small sentence in English. I got so insulated because of that So if this is happening with you too it's completely fine.
Now let's introduce something new here.
Do you know that our brain works on instinctive patterns? You are going to learn something new. listen attentively. because to learn anything it is very important to learn how our brain works. So there is a term our brain works on instinctive patterns.
when baby is bornand he is hungry, he wants milk, he starts crying. This tells the mother that the child is hungry. Now the child has not learned this thing from anywhere, he knows all this from inside. He does not have to think by conscious what should He do? He knows by himself that if I cry, I will get food.
Similarly, if we learn to generate instinctive patterns in our brain, Sometimes we also learn. As I tell you that you have to brush your teeth, by turning off the lights and closing your eyes. so maybe you all do well, Because it has developed an instinctive pattern. We know how to brush our teeth. So is it possible even while learning English? and Tenses, Modal Verbs. So you have done 90 percent work on it to understand its rules and identification, But will you do 10 percent effort so that those grammar patterns also come in the instinctive pattern.
So when you speak English you can say with confidence that we want to talk about past time? Yes, you have to say that way. What is there to think and fear in this?
》Example:-
We were on our way to dinner when our car broke down. I asked you when did the car break down? So you would say, We were going for dinner and the car stopped on the way. I asked, and what happened in class today? You said, Nothing special. Sir was scolding everyone. We were all waiting for you. OR Everyone was waiting.
Meaning that some work was going on in the past time. I met Jack on my way home from the office. Many times it happens that when we tell our friends, you know what happened. I met him today when I was coming home from the office/college/school. Now these all are very basic sentences that, we can translate easily with the help of past cont. tense in a fraction of a second. There is no need to take any tension or stress in this.
We just need confidence that if I start the sentence then I will learn and try to complete it slowly in a few days. And exactly one month later when the instinctive pattern will be formed in my mind. And then I will be able to say that sentence in a better way plus fluently
I sprained my leg while dancing yesterday. Sir, I will not be able to come to class today. Actually, I sprained my leg while dancing yesterday.
hence, I will not be able to come. If you want to get the child on leave, then you can send such messages by typing in the mail or in the message to their teacher. I injured my leg while playing football. so I will not be able to come to the party today.
I was not saying anything. I asked her many times but she was listening to music so she did not answer me.
Reading the tenses does not mean you should study one tense at a time and forget the old tense when you come to another tense. No, it shouldn't be like that.
He was using his mobile phone while teaching. If you want to ask this as a question. Was he using his mobile phone while teaching? Tell me so that I can complain about him.
We need these sentences to talk every day. We do not have to debate with people, we do not have to have long and wide discussions every day.
So it is called Survival English. I just want that you can develop confidence through this blog.
The one who is afraid of public speaking or if you think that I will never be able to speak in English. I just want that you can come above that fear. for that start talking start enjoying. Give enough time to your brain to save these simple sentences in the form of patterns in your mind.
So that whenever you start speaking you know that if I have started a sentence then I will be able to complete it too.
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